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How to Keep Your Cat from Scratching You

Cat Sleeping on a Couch in the Sunlight

When scratching is playful

Most cats are naturally playful. Play is a very useful developmental milestone for most felines, as it helps them to develop their coordination and problem-solving skills, as well as learn how to interact with other cats. There are different types of play. In the solitary play, your cat will direct her attention to an inanimate object such as a ball, toy, paper bag, or box. In contrast, social play may be directed towards other animals you have in the house, including other cats, and the humans in your family. Scratching and nipping are a natural part of playtime for cats, but this can be a problem when it comes to them interacting with people, as they can easily inadvertently hurt you. This is often especially concerning for cat owners who also have young children.  

When scratching isn’t playful

Occasionally a cat may lash out and scratch people around her because she feels uncomfortable. This is often referred to as aggression and is normally caused by overstimulation, fear, or anxiety. Thankfully there are some steps that you can take to discourage your cat from scratching you and your loved ones.

Read her body language If you are having a hug with your partner and get hot or uncomfortable and want to move away, you can explain your reasons why. Cats can’t tell us how they are feeling and so understanding and recognizing her body language is essential to know when she is seeking attention and when she may have had enough and wants to opt-out of a petting session.

Trim her claws regularly Claw trimming is probably a regular part of your grooming regime for your cat anyway, as it keeps them from ingrowing. However, trimming them back on a weekly basis can also help to protect your family from scratches.

Give your cat ‘time out’ If you are playing with your cat and she scratches you, you should end the game immediately by leaving the room. Removing yourself is far easier than trying to place your cat in a specific spot. Not only is she unlikely to stay, but she may also lash out at you if you try to move her.

Provide a variety of toys Giving your cat plenty of toys to choose from is a good way to divert their attention if they start to play too roughly. They may express a preference for a specific type of toy that they can scratch and swipe at.

Get a scratching post Scratching posts are an important tool for any cat owner. Scratching is a habit of all felines and a post gives your cat a safe space to do it that won’t ruin your furniture or your skin!

Get your cat a playmate If your cat seems very sociable, then consider getting her a playmate! Another young, playful cat can make the perfect friend for her and they will be able to understand one another much quicker. With consistency and patience, you can dissuade your cat from scratching without inhibiting her natural instinct to play and socialize.